Animal
Friendly - Customer Smart has 113 pages that explain important concepts and then offers examples, hints,
familiar case studies/scenarios and includes many different types of exercises. The following is an example
of 2 pages found in Chapter 5, "The Martial Art of Customer Service....Dealing with the Good, the Bad and the
Super Hostile."
The chapter begins by helping readers list good/desirable customer behaviors followed by the
most challenging things customers have said or done. Next is an overview of how staff and Volunteers easily
become "reactive" and meet an angry customer with more anger or sarcasm or simply say nothing and internalize
negative feelings, creating unhealthy situations for themselves and possibly the next customer. The concept of
being proactive and handling a situation without becoming defensive, offensive or thrown off base by the other person's
anger is explained. Two true case studies are shared (an account a woman who was extremely offensive to a clerk
and the other about a customer who got agitated waiting in line), and conclusions are discussed so that readers can
see familiar examples and ways to handle them.
The summary and a brief sample of a longer exercise are shared below. In the
workbook itself, the longer exercise is followed by conclusions and useful tips.
Reactive (harmful) vs. Proactive
(helpful) Behaviors
When we become reactive players in negative
exchanges, we...
When we are wisely proactive and use verbal aikido, we...
Relax under pressure
Stay on an even keel
Do not become
angry
Are not sucked into the drama
Respond with logic and facts
Avoid a fight without caving
Do not try to harm the "attacker" (the customer)
Feel good about ourselves
Look for workable solutions.
Winning!
Animal
shelter staff and Volunteers who practice verbal aikido moves readjust their definition of what winning means in an interaction
with a difficult customer. Here is what they say:
WINNING in an
interaction is NOT: 1. Getting bigger and uglier than the customer, 2. Making the customer admit they
are wrong, 3. Punishing them by becoming inflexible, or 4. Forcing the customer to listen.
WINNING in an interaction IS: 1. Getting a job done in the most professional way possible,
2. Learning to deal objectively with difficult people. 3. Letting go of punishing people who are not nice, 4. Helping people
hear us by remaining calm and logical.
We
can "win" if we're Customer Smart!